The general consensus is this: We shouldn’t dictate the roles people choose to play in their relationships. You do you, and if that works, great. Or, in Newman-Bremang’s words: “In real life, there’s going to be this push and pull, this back and forth, and if your relationship works for you, then that’s okay. I don’t like the, ‘Women should be like this, men should be like this, and in every relationship, it should be like this.’”
